Friends: How many of us have them?


Do people value friendships anymore? Friend seems to be a foreign word now. Acquaintance is more common. Seems as if people only keep in contact when its to their benefit, or only when its convenient for them. Quite frankly I’m tired of that. It’s getting older day by day. 

How does one even make friends in their late 20’s early 30’s or older? It’s like you’re not at the age where you would be in school to have people your age around you all day? It’s quite difficult. More to come to this post. . . stay tuned

5 Reasons Why It’s Hard To Date In 2016

So true

Jay Colby

  1. Fear of failed relationships: It’s becoming common to see the people around us getting in bad relationships. It’s practically impossible to trust someone these days. We’ve all heard stories from our friends, family and colleagues being related to some sort of cheating scandal. As a result, some have major trust issues, while others might feel burdened with insecurity from their partner.
  2. Having high standards:As we grow older, we add more things to our list of what we look for. We understand what we want in personality qualities, physical attraction, values, interests, etc. This makes finding a partner tricky because each person has a certain score for his or herself to determine his or her own worth.
  3. Unknown definition of love: For some people, love is a feeling of being in the moment much more than just being loved. For others, love requires a lot of personal growth. I expound on…

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The Fair Only Comes Once A Year

Life isn’t fair…sometimes. Why is it that bad things happen to good people? One of life’s many unanswered questions I guess. Hm. I don’t know. I feel like I’m 26, and I have yet to achieve what I want out of life. I feel as if my life clock is just ticking away, and I’m letting time pass me by. Le sigh. That has been my current life mantra lately :S

I need a permanent solution to this hopefully temporary problem….

Story. Of. My. Life.

Blog Scene

Blog Update

So I’m [just] getting on this site to edit my blog page more, and add some posts. Bare with me ha. I have other blog sites that I use to kind of get more of a feel of how to blog, and what I like more while blogging. I’m just now getting the hang more of this site, and I’m def quite a fan thus far. I love blogging. It’s of course like an online journal. When I blog I let all my negative energy flow through my hands and type. It’s very therapeautic. Anyways to make a long blog short (get it?) lol. I’ll cut to the end right here.

Single Girl In the Real World

F. M. L.

Rather dramatic beginning to this post, but it is, what it is. I’m 26 and feel as if my life is on a semi-downward spiral. I’ve accomplished alot on paper, and yet seem to have nothing in real actual experience with my life. I don’t know. Is it too early to have a mid life crisis in your 20’s? QTNA.

More to this to come.



 I feel at times I’m totally misunderstood for those who truly know me, they get ‘me’. And for those outsiders I like to call them, they don’t seem to truly get me from right off the top. Err I don’t know. I’d like to think of myself as kind, bubbly, fun, honest, ‘life of the party’ in a sense. That’s me in a nutshell. I think I need to find the right creative outlet to get my ‘creative juices’ flowing.

Well that is for right now. I may add more to this later.